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Oct. 26, 2023

133. How Dance Teachers Can Turn Comparison into Inspiration

Have you ever looked at another dance teacher who you admire and just felt jealous or had the thought, “How can I compare myself to these top people in the industry whose career I wish I had,” and then use that comparison for inspiration, or if...

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Oct. 19, 2023

132. How to Use Your Habit Brain to Reduce the Chances of Devastating…

Have you ever trained your dancers for a competition, drilling a dance routine over and over, only to have the dancers make a big mistake onstage that came out of nowhere? It feels so frustrating when you think you’ve done all you can to help your...

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Oct. 12, 2023

131. The FIRST Mental Skill Your Dancers Need to Learn and Probably N…

If you want dancers with more focus in class or more personal accountability, there is one mental skill that dancers need first. Maybe you’re frustrated right now because dancers aren't taking corrections or are just going through the motions in...

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Oct. 5, 2023

130. Mental Skills of Auditioning and Performing in NYC with Courtney…

In this episode, I’m talking with New York City-based professional dancer, Courtney Ortiz. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to audition and perform in New York City, she shares some great advice on the mental aspects of being a...

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Sept. 28, 2023

129. How to Break into the Confidence Cycle

Do you need confidence to perform well, or do you need to perform well before you can feel confident about yourself? Confidence is one of the biggest mental skills dancers are usually working on. Whether we are a new studio dancer or a...

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Sept. 21, 2023

128. My Top Lesson from Hamilton: Plant the Seeds of Your Legacy

Good leaders think about the legacy they want to leave behind, even if they are years away from leaving the helm of the ship. I had the extreme pleasure of watching the national tour of Hamilton when it first came to town, and I left the show inspired...

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Sept. 14, 2023

127. Good Dancers Believe in Their Ability to Learn, Not Just Get it …

Helping your dancers find the drive to work hard in class is a constant struggle for a lot of us. I think we all want to help our dancers show up with confidence and work hard every day and teach them to keep fighting when it gets hard. There are a...

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Sept. 7, 2023

126. The Mental Strength to Return to Dance with Miller Daurey

My guest today is inspiring the dance world by documenting his return to dance. Miller Daurey is a former professional team dancer who quit dance at 19, just when his career was really taking off. He has a new docuseries called Back to Great where he...

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Aug. 31, 2023

125. 8 Mistakes that Will Derail Your Dance Goals and Set You Back

Welcome to part three of my goal-setting series! If this is the first time you're tuning in, please feel free to back up a few episodes and start with part one of this goal-setting series. However, if you’re a loyal listener, you’re set up and...

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Aug. 24, 2023

124. Why Goal Setting Works and Why You Might Be Getting it Wrong

In last week’s episode, we talked about the different types of goals and why dance competition goals can actually hurt your motivation. In today’s episode, I’m going to add some more info about why goal setting works and how it works, so not...

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Aug. 17, 2023

123. If You Want to Win, Winning Can't Be the Goal

Summary: Good goal setting improves confidence, motivation, and your actual performance. To be completely real with you, most people get this wrong. I spend a lot of time helping dancers set goals over the summer, and I hear a lot of goals like, “I...

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Aug. 10, 2023

122. Do Your Dancers have GRIT?

Grit is in the dancer who works so much harder than the naturally-talented dancer who slides by. Grit is in the dancer who doesn't quit on a new skill and in the dancer who gets back up every time she falls. Even if you're not familiar with this term,...

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Aug. 3, 2023

121. 6 Ways to Teach Accountability

In today’s episode, I’ll be tackling one of the biggest issues I hear about all summer: accountability. I hear from teachers and coaches who feel like it’s gotten so much harder to get their dancers to follow through on expectations lately. I...

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July 27, 2023

120. How to Be A Mindful and Supportive Dance Parent

In today’s episode, I am back with Dr. Megan Babkes-Stellino to answer some of your questions about dance parents! If you missed part one, pause and go back and listen to Episode 115 (link below!). We had some great feedback and incredible questions...

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July 20, 2023

119. How to Use Summer Reflection to Achieve Your Personal Vision

Summary: Each year I set a word of intention rather than a New Year’s resolution, and I usually stop and do a deep reflection on my intention at the end of the year. Like most of us, I’m always learning and growing, and I’ve learned if I don't...

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July 13, 2023

118. 4 Mental Toughness Myths That Could Be Holding You Back

Summary: If you've ever talked to your dancers about taking the floor with a confident mindset or using visualization before a competition, you probably understand the importance of mental skills training. But do you have any beliefs about mental...

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July 6, 2023

117. I'm Backstage, How Do I Stop My Negative Thoughts?

I was working with a group of dancers recently, and after our discussion about competition mindset, two dancers came up to me and asked, “What do I do if I’m standing backstage about to go on and the negative thoughts are just going crazy? How do...

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June 29, 2023

116. How to Take Control and Reach Your Personal Best on Stage

I think we would all love a hack for peak performance, wouldn't we? Peak performance is when you are able to perform at your personal best to reach your full potential. Think of it like reaching your full potential. All of that work you've done in...

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June 22, 2023

115. Dance Parents are Terrible! But here's how you can cultivate a …

Summary: Do you have dance moms and dance dads at your studio or school that drive you completely crazy? I know crazy sport parents can be super challenging, and I’ve heard coaches say things like, “I love everything about teaching dance except...

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June 15, 2023

114. You Have To Learn How to Be Comfortable Being Uncomfortable - wi…

Summary: Do your dancers have the growth mindset it takes to really push themselves to improve? In today’s episode, I’ll be talking with the one and only Katie Groven of Dancer-Fitness.com about all things mental and physical flexibility for...

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June 8, 2023

113. Don’t Just Insist on More Effort From Your Dancers, There Is a B…

Summary: When we think our dancers are being lazy or don’t care, we tend to yell for full out and push for more energy because we assume the dancers aren’t giving us their full effort. But what actually is effort? How do you know what someone...

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June 1, 2023

112. 7 Tips for Effective Communication Between Coaches and Athletes

Summary: Healthy communication with our dancers starts with us dance coaches and teachers. We’re the role models for how we want to communicate in our programs and our studios and our teams. We establish the rules and expectations for how to talk to...

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May 25, 2023

111. 6 Dance Science Experts Share How They Would Change Dance Educat…

Today’s episode is an epic collaboration of six dance specialists and dance business owners. It’s a re-release of an episode of my friend Jeanne’s podcast, The Feis Fit Podcast. We all got together to record for her show, and she graciously gave...

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May 18, 2023

110. 5 Practical Tips for Team Building like Creating a 5-Star Practi…

Summary: Today’s episode is part three of a three-part series on team building. In the first two episodes of the series, we talked about the two different types of cohesion that your dancers are striving for, and we covered the four different...

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